We found an awesome message for us men that will help us have the best marriage you and your wife could ever wish for. Men it is up to us to be the leader not a passive follower of what is popular right now. In this video we will learn about how marriage, leadership, and spiritual responsibility are some of the most talked about — and most misunderstood — areas in the church.

And most people are getting them wrong.

In this Unfiltered Q&A episode, we respond to real questions about engagement, male headship, spiritual leadership in the home, marriage dynamics, and what it actually looks like to lead like Christ.

No scripts. No performance. Just direct answers grounded in Scripture and lived experience.

We talk about a question many people avoid: what do you do when you’re engaged to someone you don’t trust to lead? Why engagement isn’t a formality — it’s a testing period — and why ignoring red flags before marriage leads to consequences you can’t easily undo later.

We also break down what spiritual leadership actually looks like in practice — not vague ideas, but daily habits: Scripture, prayer, repentance, church involvement, and community. Because leading your family spiritually isn’t theoretical. It’s built through consistency.

Then we confront one of the biggest distortions in modern conversations around marriage:

The difference between domination and biblical headship.

One seeks control.
The other absorbs responsibility, cost, and sacrifice for the sake of those you lead.

We also address difficult realities inside marriage — what to do when your wife resists your leadership, how men contribute to dysfunction through passivity, and why responsibility in the home always starts with the man.

Because you can’t control your circumstances.
But you are accountable for how you lead within them.

If you’ve ever wondered:

How to know if you should marry someone
What biblical leadership actually requires
How to lead your family spiritually

source: When a Man Lead His Family, Everything Changes YouTube

With my soul I have desired You in the night, Yes, by my spirit within me I will seek You early; For when Your judgments are in the earth, The inhabitants of the world will learn righteousness.
Isaiah 26:9

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