We found an awesome message for us men that will help us have the best marriage you and your wife could ever wish for. Men it is up to us to be the leader not a passive follower of what is popular right now. In this video we will learn about how marriage, leadership, and spiritual responsibility are some of the most talked about — and most misunderstood — areas in the church.
And most people are getting them wrong.
In this Unfiltered Q&A episode, we respond to real questions about engagement, male headship, spiritual leadership in the home, marriage dynamics, and what it actually looks like to lead like Christ.
No scripts. No performance. Just direct answers grounded in Scripture and lived experience.
We talk about a question many people avoid: what do you do when you’re engaged to someone you don’t trust to lead? Why engagement isn’t a formality — it’s a testing period — and why ignoring red flags before marriage leads to consequences you can’t easily undo later.
We also break down what spiritual leadership actually looks like in practice — not vague ideas, but daily habits: Scripture, prayer, repentance, church involvement, and community. Because leading your family spiritually isn’t theoretical. It’s built through consistency.
Then we confront one of the biggest distortions in modern conversations around marriage:
The difference between domination and biblical headship.
One seeks control. The other absorbs responsibility, cost, and sacrifice for the sake of those you lead.
We also address difficult realities inside marriage — what to do when your wife resists your leadership, how men contribute to dysfunction through passivity, and why responsibility in the home always starts with the man.
Because you can’t control your circumstances. But you are accountable for how you lead within them.
If you’ve ever wondered:
How to know if you should marry someone What biblical leadership actually requires How to lead your family spiritually
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Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. Genesis 2:24 ESV
Husbands, go all out in your love for your wives, exactly as Christ did for the church—a love marked by giving, not getting. Christ’s love makes the church whole. His words evoke her beauty. Everything he does and says is designed to bring the best out of her, dressing her in dazzling white silk, radiant with holiness. And that is how husbands ought to love their wives. They’re really doing themselves a favor—since they’re already “one” in marriage. No one abuses his own body, does he? No, he feeds and pampers it. That’s how Christ treats us, the church, since we are part of his body. And this is why a man leaves father and mother and cherishes his wife. No longer two, they become “one flesh.” This is a huge mystery, and I don’t pretend to understand it all. What is clearest to me is the way Christ treats the church. And this provides a good picture of how each husband is to treat his wife, loving himself in loving her, and how each wife is to honor her husband. Ephesians 5:25-33 (MSG)
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (ESV)
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Editor: Stephen Smith. Publication date: Apr 10, 2020. Publisher: OpenBible.info.
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